Family claim headteacher took her life while waiting for Ofsted report

Headteacher took her own life while waiting for the publication of an Ofsted report that was set to downgrade her primary school from Outstanding to Inadequate, her devastated family say

  • Ruth Perry had been head of Caversham Primary School in Reading for 13 years
  • She took her own life in January after being told Ofsted would rate it Inadequate 
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A headteacher killed herself while waiting for the publication of a negative Ofsted report about her school, her family have said.

Ruth Perry, who had been principal at Caversham Primary School in Reading since 2010, took her own life in January this year, after being told the school was being downgraded from Outstanding to Inadequate.

Her devastated family say the 53-year-old was left a ‘shadow of her former self’ as a result of the inspection, and that she had described it as the ‘worst day of my life’.

It is claimed inspectors had decided after the first day of the two-day inspection to downgrade it, as well as making unfounded claims about the sexualisation of children at the school.

Ms Perry took her own life on January 8, this year, just over two months before the report was released, sparking an outpouring of grief from family, friends, colleagues and the school’s community.

Ruth Perry took her own life in January this year while waiting for the publication of an Ofsted report

Ms Perry had been headteacher of Caversham Primary School (pictured) for more than a decade when Ofsted decided to downgrade it from Outstanding to Inadequate

Her sister Julia claimed the inspection, which took place on November 15 and 16, last year, devastated Ms Perry, who told her it was ‘the worst day of my life’ and the experience was ‘dreadful’.

She told BBC South: ‘I said “I can’t be that bad” and she said “yes it is, it’s about as bad as it can be”.

Ms Perry claimed inspectors from Ofsted told senior staff and leadership at the school they had seen a boy doing ‘flossing’ – a dance move popular on the video game Fortnite – and this was evidence of the sexualisation of children at the school.

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It’s also alleged inspectors told staff they had seen child on child abuse, something that Ms Perry said was just a playground scuffle.

The inspection was the primary’s first in 13 years, after rules exempting Outstanding schools from being looked at in-depth by Ofsted were scrapped.

The report, which was published this week, found the school to be Good in every category, apart from leadership and management, where it was judged to be Inadequate.

The report criticised the school for poor record keeping, with gaps in employment checks potentially putting children at risk. This dropped the entire school to an Inadequate rating, the lowest possible.

Inspectors said that ‘most pupils behave sensibly and rise to the staff’s high expectations’, adding: ‘Pupils know who to turn to if they have a worry or a problem, feeling confident that they will get the help they need. Relationships between staff and pupils are warm and supportive. Incidents of bullying are rare.’

But they added: ‘Leaders do not have the required knowledge to keep pupils safe from harm. They have not taken prompt and proper actions when pupils are at risk. They have not ensured that safeguarding is effective throughout the school.’

The report states: ‘Governors have an ambitious vision for pupils and staff. However, they have not ensured that they fulfil their statutory safeguarding responsibilities. Until the inspection, they were unaware of significant weaknesses in the school’s arrangements to keep pupils safe.’

It added the school doesn’t have ‘robust processes’ to combat persistent absenteeism from some pupils and that leaders have a ‘weak understanding of safeguarding requirements and procedures’.

Ms Perry’s sister, Julia (pictured), told BBC South the headteacher was left a ‘shadow of her former self’ by the Ofsted inspection

Inspectors from Ofsted said leadership and management at Caversham Primary School was Inadequate

Ms Perry’s sister said there is a sense of ‘complete injustice’ about the process behind the inspection and the report.

She told BBC South: ‘All during that process, every time I spoke to her she would talk about the countdown. I remember clearly one day her saying “52 days and counting”. 

‘Everyday she had this weight on her shoulders hanging over her and she wasn’t officially allowed to talk to her family. I remember the very first time I saw her rather than just speaking on the phone a couple of days after the end of the Ofsted inspection, she was an absolute shadow of her former self.

‘This one word judgement is just destroying 32 years of her vocation, education was her vocation. 32 years summed up in one word, Inadequate. It just preyed on her mind until she couldn’t take it anymore.

‘She was a huge loss, she was my little sister and she was only 53, she had so much more still to give, so much more that she could do.’

Matt Rodda, the Labour MP for Reading East, where the school is based, said: ”I’ve had a meeting with the school’s minister and I’ve also raised this with the regional director of Ofsted. 

Matt Rodda, Labour MP for Reading East, said he had raised the issue with the regional director of Ofsted

‘I think it’s fair to say that there are local concerns about the way that the inspection was carried out. Also about the way that the Ofsted framework and other regulations affecting Ofsted effectively work, and the wider pressure on headteachers.’

In a statement to BBC South, Ofsted said: ‘We were deeply saddened by Ruth Perry’s tragic death. Our thoughts remain with Mrs Perry’s family, friends and everyone in the Caversham Primary School community.’

Ms Perry was formerly a pupil at the school, before returning in 2006 as deputy headteacher and being promoted to principal in 2010.

In a statement released after her death, her family said: ‘We are left devastated by the sudden loss of a lovely mother, wife, daughter, sister, aunt, niece, sister-in-law and friend.

‘She leaves a huge, aching gap in all our lives and, we know, in the lives of so many others who were lucky enough to know her.

‘We are grateful to all our friends for their thoughts and support now and in the difficult years ahead. Ruth will be remembered as the kind, funny, confident, vivacious, caring person she was and for all that she achieved in life. 

‘We also ask those who did not know Ruth please to respect our privacy, as we come to terms with our unfathomable grief, and to consider carefully how their words and actions might impact on others.’

‘As the many tributes to her from the broader school and Caversham community attest, Ruth cared deeply not just about academic results, but also about the general well-being and happiness of the pupils and staff whom she taught and led. 

‘Caversham Primary was a very happy school under Ruth’s leadership and, despite the many challenges that always go with the role of Head, she was happy there too.

‘Ruth was a dedicated headteacher and an excellent teacher. She loved the pupils and the staff of Caversham Primary School and was very proud to have been its headteacher for 12 years and previously deputy headteacher for four years.

‘Ruth was a force for good in her life, and we want her to be a force for positive change after her death too. 

‘We would urge anyone who has been affected by her death to talk about their feelings and know that help is available. Local and national helplines, advice and support can be found on the Reading Family Information Service website.’

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